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Missing Boy in the N.C. Mountains Found Alive.
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<blockquote data-quote="Thomas Rogers" data-source="post: 695023" data-attributes="member: 60724"><p>Caymen says: </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>So, what you are saying is that in the ship which is your marriage, you have your hand on the rudder. You will listen to your wife but if you THINK her direction would have you hit the rocks, you steer the way you THINK is best. Likewise, if she cautions that she thinks you are going to hit the rocks, then you will consider it, but ultimately steer where you THINK is best.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Though I will admit that will work, I submit that human nature is such that most wives in that arrangement will over time STOP cautioning and STOP providing opinion, because they will have seen from experience that their input isn't going to change the final outcome; that outcoming being that the husband ultimately does what HE THINKS is best.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Being a wife shouldn't mean having to persuade the husband that he is wrong in order for her voice to be heard.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Wouldn't it work better if you charted your course through life together, with neither of you having final say? Wouldn't you hit less rocks?</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>TJR</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Thomas Rogers, post: 695023, member: 60724"] Caymen says: So, what you are saying is that in the ship which is your marriage, you have your hand on the rudder. You will listen to your wife but if you THINK her direction would have you hit the rocks, you steer the way you THINK is best. Likewise, if she cautions that she thinks you are going to hit the rocks, then you will consider it, but ultimately steer where you THINK is best. Though I will admit that will work, I submit that human nature is such that most wives in that arrangement will over time STOP cautioning and STOP providing opinion, because they will have seen from experience that their input isn't going to change the final outcome; that outcoming being that the husband ultimately does what HE THINKS is best. Being a wife shouldn't mean having to persuade the husband that he is wrong in order for her voice to be heard. Wouldn't it work better if you charted your course through life together, with neither of you having final say? Wouldn't you hit less rocks? TJR [/QUOTE]
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