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Now my ex lost his job.. child support question
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<blockquote data-quote="Thomas Rogers" data-source="post: 548918" data-attributes="member: 60724"><p>Nope...Michelle, no experience with that, but I do have an opinion:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Is there any possible way you can resolve this without lawyers?</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>By resolve, I mean come to a compromise that you both can agree with...one that doesn't include him trying to pay more or get caught up in the future, because that won't work, typically. Maybe just an agreement as to a reduced amount, temporarily until he gets on his feet. Give him x weeks or months, and regular rules apply; if he is late in sending the agreed to reduced amount, or moving back up to the full amount by the deadline you contact the authorities. Oh, and part of the deal would have him NOT go to the court for a reduction. This has the benefit of NOT officially changing your current arrangement, yet you recognizing that he needs some time to get a new job.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I ask if there is any way you can do this without lawyers because, frankly, wouldn't it be better if you can come to some agreement and keep more of the money in your respective pockets?</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>TJR</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Thomas Rogers, post: 548918, member: 60724"] Nope...Michelle, no experience with that, but I do have an opinion: Is there any possible way you can resolve this without lawyers? By resolve, I mean come to a compromise that you both can agree with...one that doesn't include him trying to pay more or get caught up in the future, because that won't work, typically. Maybe just an agreement as to a reduced amount, temporarily until he gets on his feet. Give him x weeks or months, and regular rules apply; if he is late in sending the agreed to reduced amount, or moving back up to the full amount by the deadline you contact the authorities. Oh, and part of the deal would have him NOT go to the court for a reduction. This has the benefit of NOT officially changing your current arrangement, yet you recognizing that he needs some time to get a new job. I ask if there is any way you can do this without lawyers because, frankly, wouldn't it be better if you can come to some agreement and keep more of the money in your respective pockets? TJR [/QUOTE]
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