How do you change the oil in our trucks? Like any other internal combustion engine. If you are asking, then it's probably not a good idea for you to change your own oil. Pay someone else to do it for you.
I would coat the seal of the new filter with a thin film of oil. This allows the seal to give or slip a little to seal. If everything is dry, it can roll or kink sometimes....
Caymen: I know what you are saying, and I do agree 100%, but I also know from experience, as Chet said, how much oil is really in a quart when it's on the floor! It's funny now, but when it happened, well, let's just say that the air got kind of blue...
If you find yourself using any oil filter wrench to remove the oil filter on a regular basis then you are tightening it too tight.
Just tighten @1/4 turn after the gasket makes contact - till its slightly snug. Makes removal easy and you are less likely to have a leak around the seal.
I always pour a quart into the filter before installing. On my 01 anyway the filter sits straight uo so there is no spilling. This way you don't have low pressure.