You can reserve the restaurants ahead of time by calling (407) WDW-DINE (939-3463), I think no sooner than 90 days in advance (check on that), but you want to be calling as soon as you can.
I personally, highly recommend the following:
Breakfast (for the little kids, especially youn girls):
- A Fairytale Lunch at Cinderalla's Royal Table (Magic Kingdom)
- Princess Storybook Dining at Restaurant Akershus (Epcot/Norway)
Lunch:
- Sci-Fi Dine In Theater (MGM)
- 50s Prime Time Cafe (MGM)
Dinner:
- Biergarten Restaurant (Epcot/Germany)
STAY AWAY FROM THE Rain Forest Cafe in the Animal Kingdom AT ALL COSTS. IT SUCKS!
If you are set on staying at Disney, have fun, the accomodations are always nice, but often pricey. If you want to drive and park, let me know as I can recommend a nice apt/suite type setup that is 3 miles from the parks and will save you a ton of time (if you stay at one of the Disney rooms on a bus route) and money. We stayed at one, and since it had a full kitchen and dining area we ate most of our breakfasts and a dinner or two there. You save a lot that way, and don't waste as much time in the morning eating breakfast at one of the parks....kids just want cereal and mom and dad coffee...then 10 to 15 minutes from apt to front gates, vs wait for bus, bus ride all over, wait in line to eat, wait to be served, wait to pay, then start enjoying the rides and sites. Sure, if staying at a resort hotel you can get into the parks earlier, but not that much earlier, and then if you factor in what time you have to be at the transit stops, you are up at 6:30am...don't sound like a vacation to me!
Checkout the link below for dining reservations: