I run Performance Friction Carbon Metallic pads. Like Richard L, I could care less about brake dust. I care about braking ability. If I can stop good, I am happy.
I am sitting at over 81,000 miles on my Trac and I am still on my original rotors. They were only turned once and when they were turned, only about .010" was machined off the rotors and they are nowhere close to being thin.
I figure I still have another 40,000 miles on those rotors, maybe more. I would love to go with some slotted or drilled rotors, but as long as the OE ones work fine, I will keep them.
I have had very good luck with the Carbon Metallic pads and would recommend them to anyone.
IMO, ceramic pads are not safe. They are not recommended for towing tells me they are not strong enough to handle an emergency situation. The brake pad doesn't know the difference between a trailer, a load in the bed, or an emergency stop.
Personally, visible brake dust is better than a ride in the hospital to the ER room. That is just me, your results might vary.
Tom