Please pray for Doria!!

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Robert Caffyn

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Thought this board would get the most attention. My friend Doria V., was in a bad motorcycle accident yesterday(Sunday) at about 2:30pm near Atlantic City. As of 3:30pm today, the doctors had nothing positive to say. She probably won't make it. She's only 53, same age as me. She suffered severe head trauma and a broken pelvis. Could you all please say any prayers you can? This is a woman who has nearly 12 years of sobriety. 4 years ago, her then boyfriend shot and killed Doria' two teenage(13 and 16) daughters in the driveway, then killed himself. She doesn't deserve this and I'm very angry at God right now. She was just starting to put her life back together. Has been dating Mark H. for a couple of months now. Mark is also in the program. You can say God's will all you want, it won't make any difference. I'm gonna try and see her tomorrow at lunchtime and read from the big book to her. Maybe she can hear us. I am so angry. :angry::angry:
 
Aloha Bob C,

I will pray for Doria's recovery she has more productive time here on earth. However we must let God be God. We have no choice, He does what He wishes. Your anger stands in the way of your relationship with Him. That won't help Doria, You need to be as close to God as possible for your prayers to be most effective.

I pray for Gods grace on you both Ed.
 
Bob C, I know this not what you want to hear right now, but your anger is MISPLACED! You're praying & asking for prayers from others to the very being that your angry @, go figure! May God do a work in both of you if it's his will.
 
I will Bob..So sorry to hear it.



Bob, God is big, and he can take your anger. I see it as not misplaced anger. The word says to come to him with all our hurts praises and anger, etc.

The lord prefers we be angry with him instead of taking it out on our brothers and sisters. or the world.

God works for us the most when we take it to him, even anger at him. He understands our pain. The word also says. Whatever it might be. Take it also to other believers and he is right here amongst us. I know all I have said, is scriptual. Just paraphrased.



May Gods blessings and mercy hear our crie's for your friend.
 
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Saw Doria tonight. Well she has stable vital signs. No voluntary movements. They stopped the paralytics and cut down on the pain meds to do an assessment tomorrow morning. Pupils react to light, she has reflex gagging when the tube is suctioned. Brain continues to swell after 4 CAT scans. Good news/bad news, the back of her skull is crushed and she also has fractures in the front. This is allowing the brain to swell. However, if it continues and the brain herniates out the bottom, she will die. The Drs. don't expect her to make it. I am so sad....:cry::cry::cry:



We friends of Bill's will be holding a meeting tomorrow evening at the hospital. Lord hear our prayers.
 
You have my prayers. From what the doctors say it won't be long now, if she does go then hopefully it's without too much pain and she can maybe say her goodbyes to you and family members even if it's just a squeeze of the hand. :cry::sad:
 
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