Gerry,
Sorry to hear the bad news. I have to agree with Redfish and question why they did not know the size of your prostate before they even started the procedure?
I have never had prostate problems and I get a PSA and finger probe every year, so I don't have much experience beyond that. It sounds like Redfish has been there, done that, and has the T-Shirt to prove it...:grin:. I'm sure his advice on this issue is far more accurate than mine.
I lost my wife to cancer in 2007 and I don't want to lose anyone else to such a cruel disease. I wish you all the best, and hope you find the right treatment. You probably need to talk to your doctors and find out their recommendations as what is the best treatment for you and Redfish can probably give you a lot of insight about the various options. Just don't give up hope...That's the key trait that all survivors have...They don't give up.
Again, we are all pulling for you to beat this.
...Rich