Brendan Grant
Member
You are doing a lot for your kids.
My parents take on having a reliable car after graduation was giving me the 10 year old family clunker and some money to fix it up once. All I really needed and it was cheap to insure without collision. Some of my friends had new cars and their insurance payments matched the payments their parents were paying on the new car.
They also gave me a set amount that got me started in college and told me to work and take student loans for the rest. My other sister had school bills approaching 6 figures but it was all in her name and responsibility. Being a pharm major she will be able to pay it off.
What is the result on shifting more of the burden on the kids and giving them responsibility? My paents were empty nesters in their mid 40s and free and clear of financial obligations racked up by their kids. We are surviving and thriving and they shower us once in a blue moon with some extra money.
I currently am a DINK but all most of my friends kids are nearing college or are becoming twixters and this trend is disturbing me. It throws a monkey wrench into retirement plans.
My parents take on having a reliable car after graduation was giving me the 10 year old family clunker and some money to fix it up once. All I really needed and it was cheap to insure without collision. Some of my friends had new cars and their insurance payments matched the payments their parents were paying on the new car.
They also gave me a set amount that got me started in college and told me to work and take student loans for the rest. My other sister had school bills approaching 6 figures but it was all in her name and responsibility. Being a pharm major she will be able to pay it off.
What is the result on shifting more of the burden on the kids and giving them responsibility? My paents were empty nesters in their mid 40s and free and clear of financial obligations racked up by their kids. We are surviving and thriving and they shower us once in a blue moon with some extra money.
I currently am a DINK but all most of my friends kids are nearing college or are becoming twixters and this trend is disturbing me. It throws a monkey wrench into retirement plans.