The monthly fee for Oplink is kinda putting me off. It's not much, but I want DIY. If I wanted to pay, I'd contact ADT and let them monitor. Not scratching it off the list but I'm now really interested in Piper. It puts monitoring and home automation in one neat bundle and has no fees. Turning on a lamp when a door is opened as well as monitoring the smoke detectors seems like something we might would use.
I'm not entirely technologically backward as I may have put on. I can work with port forwarding, static IP addresses, etc. but I don't really like to and I get bored with tech pretty quickly, especially network crap. I'm more interested in "the way consumer electronics should be" as you put it. I want simple. I don't want to troubleshoot every damn thing I purchase and have to find out how to make it work with my time capsule. I really hate that we still need to have cords attached to everything. I want things to operate wireless, charge wireless, integrate with everything else I own and just simply work out of the box. Just like I shouldn't have to be a professional chef to use a microwave, I shouldn't have to be a tech nerd to use modern technology.
I'm really not interested in wifi thermostats per se, or even surveillance. I just want to play with some new and cheap technology that is supposed to make life easier. It seems home automation is going to be big and will offer some cool stuff in the near future.
I also really want an electric motorcycle but that's a much harder sell to my wife.
Anyway, I linked to the Piper system below. I also wanted to look at one made by Canary but it's only by preorder and is already sold out so I didn't even look any further than that.