Oh, I get it TomT. I'm NOT saying a policeman shouldn't use their descretion. Nor am I saying that in the case of Tom's father he should have been given a ticket. I am simply showing how people often like to talk in absolutes about the law in one case; for example, illegal immigrants. They like to say: "Hey! They are breaking the law and that's all there is to it!" Then, in other cases, like this, they like to show how the law is somewhat meaningless in a particular situation.
So, as I said, we all like to declare certain laws as absolute and others as descretionary. That's what I GET from this thread and others. What I GET is that people like to talk out of both sides of their mouth on various issues. I'm not saying that is bad, heck I do the same myself. On certain topics I am conservative (or traditional, or hardcore), and others more liberal (lax, forgiving, bending). No one is one-sided and completely polar on all issues and topics.
What I find interesting is that more people can't recognize those "differences" that they themselves have in opinion on differing subjects. For example, if I felt that there were certain laws that shouldn't be enforced under certain situations then I would remember that stance and not be quite as quick to judge and much more willing to listen to other people who felt that same way about some law that I might think should be upheld, absolutely.
The easiest way to understand someone's viewpoint is listen to it unemotionally, and then try to find something from your past or your experiences that made you feel the same way. Few people seem to want to be able to do that, instead they just want to defend their position, rather than understand the other person's.
In this thread we have a member trying to rationalize his actions that he knows to be illegal. Heck, I can think of tons of time I have done the same. The key is to recognize the rationalization and understand the heart of said rationalization. For example: what was the goal in breaking the law? Was it to help others; help myself...did the outcome and its good outweigh whatever possible harm? Understand the rationalization! Almost every time I have tried to rationalize away my bad (or even illegal) behavior in the past and have questioned myself in this way I have come to the same conclusions, and they typically were that I had no really good reason to do what I was doing other than selfishness and a belief and attitude that I knew better or was above the law....and the ultimate conclusion is that I don't want to be "that" type of person, nor do I want to model that behavior to my children.
I think I get it.
Are there too many laws, too many codes to enforce...that's a different issue!
TJR