I have been talking to an officer recruiter and a recruit recruiter (i guess that's right)
Actually the correct terminology would be "officer recruiter and an
enlisted recruiter. But that's OK, you're still learning. :grin:
I too am retired Navy, having served as an ET from 1986-2006. During my career, I also served four years on recruiting duty.
If it's truly your life's goal to become a SEAL, don't let your parents deter you about going enlisted. If you're not qualified for officer programs when you graduate from college, then enlisting is your only other option. If your parents really love you, they'll support your dream no matter which route you take.
If going the enlisted route is your only option upon graduating from college and you still have aspirations of becoming a commissioned officer, don't worry. There are opportunities for enlisted personnel to become officers after they're in the Navy. One such option allows enlisted folks to go to college full time while on active duty and then receive their commission after they get their undergrad degree. Since you'll already have your degree, I'm not sure how this option would work for you. There's also the Chief Warrant Officer/Limited Duty Officer programs that allow enlisted folks to become officers. I'm sure there are other enlisted-to-officer programs available, but having been out of the loop for six years now, I'm not up on the latest "intel".
If you enlist, you'll have one advantage over your peers right away: By already having a BS degree, you'll go right into boot camp at the accelerated rank/pay grade of E-3. That'll be a huge advantage for you, because you'll be eligible for advancement that much sooner.
Having your teaching certificates/licenses upon graduation is a great thing. And the best advice I could give you about those if you go in the Navy is this: Never, ever let those lapse, no matter how long you stay in the Navy. If you let them lapse, you may have to take more courses to regain them if the standards/requirements change over time. I'm assuming you'll have an OH teaching license, right? If you keep it up throughout your Naval career, when you retire, you just might be able to begin teaching right away in whatever state you settle in if they give reciprocity for your OH license. I had a CO in my career who was a teacher when he became a Naval Aviator during Vietnam, and he kept his IL license up throughout his 27-year Navy career. When he retired, he got a job right away in IL teaching.
As for becoming a SEAL and the high failure rate mentioned by others: That high rate of failure is largely for mental reasons, not physical. As I'm sure you already know, the purpose of BUD/S is not only to get you into great physical condition, but to push you mentally to your breaking point, and then take you about 100 miles beyond that to see if you can take it. Yes, being a Sailor myself probably makes my opinion a little biased, but I don't think there are any better Special Warfare Operators on this planet than United States Navy SEALs.
Keep in mind, though, that there are also other options within the Naval Special Warfare community to consider such as Navy Divers, Explosive Ordinance Disposal (EOD), and Special Warefare Combat Crew (SWCC). The SWCC's are the guys that drive the SEALs high speed boats, getting them to the beach.
how do you think the military has improved your way of life?
1. Got my Associate and Bachelor's degrees while on active duty-for free. Paid for by Navy Tuition Assistance.
2. Enabled me to see many parts of the world (and also the USA) that this IL-born Midwestern boy probably never would've seen if not for the USN.
3. Developed strong, lifelong friendships/brotherhoods with folks that I served with. To this day (especially with the "magic" of Facebook), I'm still tight with, and talk to quite often, folks that I served with on my first ship back in '88. I'm sure that other Veterans on this board will agree that there's
no stronger bond than the one you forge with someone you serve alongside in the military, whether in battle, or peace time. It's just a way of life that no civilian can ever understand.
4. Retired after 20 years at the age of 40, drawing a pension right away and still young enough to start a second career.
5. Some others may knock military medicine, but I've had
great health care, both in my active career, and also now as a retiree. And that includes me
and my family. My son was born in a Navy hospital 10 weeks premature and had multiple health issues. He was in the NICU for 70 days, and has had various therapies and other medical needs throughout the last 11 years; yet TRICARE has
never turned us down for anything; and the most it's cost us is a $12/visit copay each time. And as a military retiree, I pay $438/year for health care for my entire family. That's a
huge thing to consider these days.
That's all I've got for now. Feel free to email me directly if you have more questions.
Good Luck!