When I was young, maybe seven or eight, I would often visit my grandparents in Brooklyn during my school vacations. They would take me to Brighton beach, Coney Island, the local park, or sometimes, to Radio City Music Hall when a new Disney cartoon was opening.
Fond, childhood memories. But there were other things about those visits I remember all too well.
The memories are nearly thirty five years old, but I recall it as if it were yesterday: How easily my grandmother could be brought to tears at the sight of a swastika, or an image of Adolf Hitler, or anything having to do with Nazi Germany. If a show like "The World at War" came on TV, the reaction to the imagery was instantaneous. She would cry uncontrollably.
She was born in a village outside of Krakow, Poland, where she met and married my grandfather, and where my father and my uncle were born, and where everyone she knew for the first twenty five years of her life was from. Parents, five brothers and sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, in-laws, childhood friends. In those days, in that place, people didn't leave the village they were born in. Everyone she knew, her entire world, existed there.
All of them were killed by the Nazis except for six: My grandparents. My father. My uncle. One of my grandmother's sisters and her husband.
My grandfather and my great aunt's husband made the difficult decision to move their families before the Nazi's arrived; they were on the run for six years. They didn’t know it at the time, but they would never see anyone from their village again. My grandmother would sob (a gut-wrenching thing for a young grandson to hear), as she would retell of begging her mother and father to be allowed to take her youngest brother, just a boy, when they left. Her parents wouldn't allow it. He perished with them. For three years after the war, they tried to locate family and friends. They didn’t want to believe everyone was dead. It was a reality they eventually had to accept.
Imagine if every person you knew up until age 25, every family member, every person you ever called a friend, your neighbors, your school teachers, your pastor, the guy that delivered the mail, the person who worked at the corner store, everyone you ever met, was murdered.
And then, sixty years later, a bunch of idiots say it never happened, or that it was exaggerated to justify creating Israel.
Folks, it happened. I've seen the family photo albums. I've listened to the first hand accounts, in person. I don't think my grandmother was faking the sobbing to perpetuate a folk tale. I don't think the stories my grandfather told me about hiding in the woods, in the winter, not eating for days or weeks, were bedtime fairy tales, told as entertainment.
Frankly, I don't know how they survived the mental anguish. If I survived something like that, I don't know if I'd have the ability to continue on, having been a witness to that much evil.
Thankfully, they aren’t alive to hear a group of people, claiming to be scholars, trying to cast doubt on what they experienced. On the other hand, having suffered that kind of loss, I’m not sure anything would have surprised them.