I visited Pearl Harbor in 1989 and again in 1999. The first time was when my first ship, the USS Dixon pulled in for liberty. To this day, every U.S. Navy ship pulling into Pearl conducts a "Man the Rails" evolution and makes one trip around Ford Island, rendering honors to port to the Arizona as they pass by. There was a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes while I saluted my fallen shipmates entombed on the Arizona. That was an incredible experience.
The second time in 1999 was when my wife and I went to HI on an anniversary trip. I took her out to the memorial to pay our respects. It was just a powerfully moving experience the second time. It was a little different, though, now that the USS Missouri is berthed aft of the Arizona as a museum. The symbols of both the beginning and the end of WWII for America right next to each other... quite a sight.