A1cntrler
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My son will be starting school here in a few weeks and after being a stay-at-home-dad since my medical discharge from the military, I wanted to find something to do to fill the time and bring in a bit of extra money to play with. I applied at Advance Auto Parts and have done everything except the pee test (which he gave me the paperwork on Thurs, and called me today to ask me where it was at..been out of town as of Fri. morning..told him that and that I would do it Mon, but he called me a few minutes ago to ask me where it was at..) and the background check (which he said would take about 3-4 days to complete). I was under the assumption that when going for part-time, I could tell him when I was available. I had told him Mon-Fri after 2pm (My son starts school at 1pm, and grandma will pick him up after school, and mom will get him from grandmas on her way home from work). He said that I would be needed on weekends as well. I figured ok, no problem. I also took in some dates on which we have had things planned already. In October, we have a wedding we are going to in the Poconos. We have already spent $1200 on a 6 person cabin for a three day period (Fri, Sat and Sun) at the resort where the wedding will be at. This was paid for back in January. About a week after we return from that, my in-laws (son's childcare after school) will be going on a 10 day cruise. I told him I would be available after 6pm on those days since my wife works until 530 M-F. He then told me that he needs me to work, and why do I need 3 days for a wedding in the Poconos? He said he can get there and back in 1-2 days max from here in Southeastern VA. And he is not happy at all about me needing to be out for 10 days in a row for childcare.
Honestly I don't need the job, just wanted something to do to fill the time (the 20% discount is nice too). The wife just completed her Doctorate and is the breadwinner for now. She has told me that I can go to work as long as it doesn't interfere with what she wants to do (such as going out of town for a weekend on a whim, going to Busch Gardens whenever, taking the kid camping, etc..) She can deal with the M-F stuff, but would really like me around on weekends (as I would like to be too )
I have never worked Part-time before. All I have known is the military life, and did that for close to 11 years. I just want to be sure I am not being taken advantage of. Should I be able to tell him when I am available to work, or do I need to accommodate his schedule into my life?? I really want this job and to work there. I like the environment of the store and the way everyone is helpful. But if this is the way it is going to be, maybe I need to go and look elsewhere for a job that will accommodate my schedule better. Am I being too picky with my hours I am available???
Honestly I don't need the job, just wanted something to do to fill the time (the 20% discount is nice too). The wife just completed her Doctorate and is the breadwinner for now. She has told me that I can go to work as long as it doesn't interfere with what she wants to do (such as going out of town for a weekend on a whim, going to Busch Gardens whenever, taking the kid camping, etc..) She can deal with the M-F stuff, but would really like me around on weekends (as I would like to be too )
I have never worked Part-time before. All I have known is the military life, and did that for close to 11 years. I just want to be sure I am not being taken advantage of. Should I be able to tell him when I am available to work, or do I need to accommodate his schedule into my life?? I really want this job and to work there. I like the environment of the store and the way everyone is helpful. But if this is the way it is going to be, maybe I need to go and look elsewhere for a job that will accommodate my schedule better. Am I being too picky with my hours I am available???
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