Jim,
At age 24, I knew what I was going to do when I 'grew up'... I knew that I'd be in the restaurant business... My mom & stepfather had opened a pizza place in Sacramento, Ca. after moving out from Chicago. The business was successful. My step dad passed away when I was 21, and working for my mom wasn't cutting it. (Those of you that work in 'family' businesses know what I'm talking about) I was going to college for something I wasn't sure I wanted to do... living with a girl that I wasn't quite sure was the 'right one'... Then I saw Malcolm Forbes on David Letterman one night... He told the audience that "Our society is backwards. We go to school, work until we're 55, then retire! You need to go enjoy your youth! Go do what it is that you want to do when you're young, while you can! Do you think that you'll want to jump out of a plane when you're 55? Hell no! Do it now! You don't have to retire at 55. You can work until you're 65 or 75 easily!" It struck a chord with me... Shortly thereafter, my father passed away in Chicago, and I returned home for his funeral. While there, I visited with many of my high school friends. Most were married, had kids, and were buying houses. They had all been working since finishing school, and none of them had left Chicago. I knew that this was not the path I wanted to follow... I returned to California, and decided to move to Tahoe... Quit school, quit working for my mom, and told my g/f I was moving. She couldn't come along, so we went our own ways... I spent the next 7 years skiing 50-100 days a winter, and riding my road bike over mountain passes all summer, along with whatever else I could find to do to have fun! I worked in the restaurant and construction industries part time while playing, learning the business that I would someday inherit. I lived on next to nothing in a rich person's world, or as they call it in Tahoe, "Poverty with a view!" My mom had purchased some rental properties over the years, and I eventually moved down from Tahoe and started to take over the maintenence of the properties while working part time at other jobs, mainly bartending. When my mom passed away, the party was over and I went from 'Professional Leisurist' to corporate president. From ski bum to 'I got 2 job mon!'... My head spins these days at the amount of 'stuff' that I need to deal with on a daily basis now. But I still know how to play... my toys are just more expensive! I just need to MAKE time for it now. My latest 'hobby', road racing 125cc shifter karts! This is at Infineon Raceway at Sears Point. 105 mph!
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BTW, I still talk to the ex g/f on occasion... And I made the right call, as she's VERY liberal, and well, I'm not! So we would of never made it work anyways.