I don't know of any sites available to the general public which will give a complete breakdown of vehicle components and equipment. There are several so-called "VIN decoders," but they merely decipher what each digit of the VIN stands for (the eighth digit is the engine code, for example, the 10th indicates the model year, the 11th the assembly plant, etc.))
However, EVERY Ford dealer has access to the complete line sheet for any Ford vehicle built since 2001, and can get a compehensive list of factory-installed options and equipment for most earlier vehicles back through the early '90s. Unfortunately, many are either too lazy, incompetent, or apathetic to supply a customer with this sort of information.
E-mail me your VIN & a fax #, and I'll get someone to send it to you.