Richard L,
Maybe that is the case, Richard L. Maybe people don't want to be headshrinked (or is that headshrank?) by an amateur like me. I can appreciate that and am sensitive to that. That is why I try not to make my discussions personal, or about specific individuals. As you can see above, I made that point several time. I wasn't talking about anyone in specifical, just about humans in general, and the human mind as a complex thing.
Also, I didn't try to twist your words. I pointed out how your words, as said, created a logical arguement as stated. I even explained that pretty well. I thought. I still see what you are saying as a matter of semantics. Yes, you CAN be against extremism without being against religion, in general. However, when the religion is question by its nature is extreme, well then I simply connect the dots. It's like saying: "I Love Fruit", in one breath, but then saying: "I hate watermelon." in another. Or, "I love my fellow man!", but "I hate illegal immigrants". You get what I am saying? To me, your statement says that you have a positive support for the general (religion) to which you don't qualify, then a specific denouncement to a special case of the general.
If you drop out of the conversation, that's fine. I think you dropped out of it without ever really understanding what I was saying (about the support of the general, denouncement of the specific), the I indicated several times that I felt I understood and agreed with what you were saying.
The funny thing here is that in most cases that is all I am looking for...someone to say they understand what I am saying, they think it has merit, even if they don't totally agree with it.
Even stranger, the point I was trying to make to you, and those to Caymen, aren't in my mind controversial. I see almost no way that when you present those ideas to 100 intelligent people that 99 wouldn't agree with them.
The reason that I don't think you see what I was saying, understand it, and give it merit is because you feel that it either proves what you were saying is wrong (it doesn't need to), or that it paints you in some negative light (it doesn't need to).
You are a good guy, Richard, and I appreciate your intelligent opinions.
What I am trying to say here is that people make absolute claims, often, in life, on this board, etc, and often they can't be backed up, or their multiple claims are at odds with one another because of one simple fact: LIFE is not that simple. Not all cases apply all the time. There are those things we generally accept as truth, and then there are those special cases. Thinking that they are all the same, or that the same rules apply, often does not hold true.
For example, take a couple of positions:
1. "I am supportive of religions and intolerant of religious extremists."
and
2. "I am generally supportive of and open to religions, but am intolerant to harmful religious extremists."
See how the two statements and ideals are slightly different? Sure, to the person speaking #1, they may clearly mean #2...but maybe they don't?
Same argument for Caymen's convictions. The BRAIN is not that simple. Can't turn things on and off within our head. It is much better to simply admit these things, and not speak in absolutes. That is also why, above, I used the qualifier "100%", again, and again...to reinforce that what I was talking about was a general inability to totally, absolutely, turn off one's mental model.
Have a good day folks.
The main issue here is that I guess I am trying to get folks to mean what they say, say what they mean, and recognize that there are so very few absolute (positions, ideas, ideals), in this world.
TJR