What is silly about this is.. If you had the PCM recalibration as is indicated in a TSB from Ford that addresses the above concerns, they go away. I had it done to mine and have several friends that did the same and none of us have ever had those issues again, even over a year later.
But.. glad you found a vehicle you enjoy now. That is what matters. Hope you like the H3 better than the two friends of mine that bought them and got rid of them in less than a year, as they were not what they expected.
To those bagging on you, shame on them. This is why they make different vehicles, everyone likes different things, and your happiness with the vehicle you have is what should matter. I am only sorry that you didn't have your concerns above addressed by a dealer that knew what they were doing, as they could have been resolved.